In divorce, it is very common for the parties to own a home. A common question we get is, should I keep/sell and/or give my ex the home? The answer is always…It depends. In most cases, the best option is to give the martial home to your ex and have them pay you out half of the equity. This way you get actually have the actual value/equity and do not have to pay closing costs/renovations etc. if you sale.
In some instances, though, one spouse wants to keep the house and the other doesn’t, or maybe there are kids involved and the custodial parent is hoping to stay in the home for the semblance of normalcy for the children’s sake. In those situations, some opt to refinance the house in order to stay in it, so they buy their ex-spouse out of the house.
Home Refinance Considerations During Divorce:
- Once you do refinance the home, your monthly mortgage payment may be less than it was before. But plan on paying “closing costs” (which can be several thousand dollars) in the refinancing process. However, if you keep the home and have to pull money out of the home to pay off your ex then you can expect your mortgage payment to go up.
- Make sure you will actually be able to pay the new monthly mortgage of the house on your own (though you can factor in any alimony or child support you expect to receive). You’ll also need to (individually) have a good enough credit score.
- In the refinancing process, you’ll need to have a new home appraisal done. This is good because it will let you know how much money you’ll need to plan on paying your ex-spouse to buy them out through a “cash out refinance” (so you’ll pay them half the appraised value by using your share of the home’s equity).
- You’ll need to have a relatively decent relationship and line of communication with your ex-spouse to be able to get all the home division issues settled. If you’re in a highly combative place with your ex, your attorney and/or mortgage broker becomes extra important to helping you work out the details with your ex.
- You’ll need to have your ex sign a “quitclaim” deed, which changes the name of the home from joint ownership to be solely in your name.
- You most likely will have to refinance the home out of your ex’ name sooner than later. The courts are moving away from allowing you to hold off a refinance for several months and/or years. Therefore, if you want to keep the home you need to start working on a plan now to be able to accomplish it.
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