Five Types of Emotionally Abusive Behavior in Parents Overindulgence Most people don’t think of overindulgence as abusive behavior. After all, the kid’s getting exactly what they want, it can’t be that bad, right? However, consistent overindulgence is rarely without other problems. When a parent is consistently overindulging a child, the…
Are You Divorced or Separated? Whether or not you’re officially divorced and/or separated from your spouse will determine how you file your taxes. You and your spouse may be able to file jointly if you’re still married by the end of the year. However, if you and your spouse have…
Watch Out for Highlight Reels Everybody Fights Most people in happy marriages don’t record their fights and post them online for the world to see and draw conclusions. In fact, most of them don’t even tell their close friends about their fights. While you might see your friends happy marriages…
Do You Have to Follow the Divorce Decree? What Is the Divorce Decree? A divorce decree is an order from the court that outlines the terms of your divorce. When you sign your divorce documents, it’s like signing a contract: my ex gets this, I will see the children…
What Does Your Decree Say? If your decree does not address this issue—and there’s a good chance that it doesn’t—you are likely free to talk about politics around your children. However, if you’re not divorced yet, you could probably get that put into your decree if you foresee it causing…
Are Children Involved? If you and your spouse do not have children together, there is no reason to maintain contact with each other. There are no laws prohibiting it, and if you want to re-connect with your spouse, you’re certainly welcome to. However, if you don’t have any children, and…
#1 Finances You and your spouse should discuss your finances in-depth before the wedding. Not only should you decide whether you’re going to have combined vs separate finances, you should also know your spouse’s money management style and your spouse’s financial goals. It’s great if you and your spouse both…
Is It Okay to Text Your Ex after Divorce? It Depends Some people choose to remain close after they divorce their spouse—after all, the divorce was fairly amicable and both parties are on good terms so is there really any harm in staying in touch with your ex? If you…
How to Keep Inheritance Separate from Spouse Disclaimer: You Need to Speak to an Attorney Who is getting what in a divorce will always depend on the facts of your situation and the laws in your state. Though the general guidelines may be similar, there is no substitute for advice…
They Have to Be Dragged to the Alter If your significant other had to be dragged to the alter, that should be taken as a big flashing sign that you should reconsider this whole thing. If your significant other repeatedly made excuses as to why they didn’t want to get…
How to Survive and Thrive When Your Marriage Ends